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T.M.I. Tuesday – Movember 20

This week’s T.M.I. Tuesday (courtesy of celebrates Movember!  Want to read more?  Come on down!


1. When is the last time you or your loved one had their prostate checked?

I confess, I have not had this procedure performed by a medical professional.  In fact, due to very little health insurance coverage at all since March 2005, I have had only one physical exam in the past 7 years.  It is a dilemma not easily resolved, as I haven’t the funds available for preventative care.


2. Besides a medical professional, how many other people have had their finger up your ass?

Mrs. AP has had more than one finger — up to three! — buried to the hilt inside me, and she wasn’t far from adding a fourth.


3. Have you ever given or received a prostate massage? Did you like it? Did you cum or orgasm?

I have not given such a massage (yet) but have quite enjoyed the strength and pace of Mrs. AP’s strokes.  She’s not made me cum solely from the massage, but she doesn’t need to touch my cock much to make me explode in the strongest orgasms I’ve ever experienced.  Intense is an understatement.


4. Do you enjoy anal play–rimming, fingering, penetration, etc.?

Oh gods, yes.  Giving and receiving.  All of it.



5. Ever had anal sex?
A. No, and I don’t want to.
B. No, but I am dying to try it.
C. Yes, but it is just okay.
D. Yes, love it…can’t get enough of it.
E. That’s the way I like it. Anal sex is the best sex.

My answer doesn’t quite fit under the established choices.  I love anal sex, but for me it is a natural extension of the already lively sexual experience Mrs. AP and I have together.  I love the way I fit in her mouth, her pussy, and her ass.  I love the way she can cum from me fucking her pussy or ass.  I love the way she talks her most dirty when I’m in her ass.  Just as I love the way she so skillfully strokes my cock, fingers my ass, fucks my ass with her glass toys, or pegs me with her strapon.  Can I get enough of it?  Well, no, but I can’t get enough of any of our sex acts together.  Nor is it “the best”, because frankly we’re so damn good together that it’s not where my cock is but how connected we are at the time that produces our best moments.


6. You are about to have anal sex, which method would you choose (You must choose one.):
A. Finger up the ass
B. Prostate stimulator/massager
C. Penis–real or strap-on

Funny, that’s the order we usually follow:   fingers to toys to pegging.  Don’t believe me?  Read the recap.  I’m still waiting for my first “real live penis” in my ass, but I think we’ve met the guy who’ll help with that.


Bonus: Show us your Movember moustache. Post a photo.

I wasn’t going to do this, but I think I got the shot that shows the ‘stache without revealing too much else about me.



Be sure to check the T.M.I. Tuesday blog comments section for links to other participants!


Stay SINful, friends.

4 responses

  1. Nice ‘stache sexy lips, nice color.

    *kiss, kiss*

    November 20, 2012 at 8:09 am

  2. suggestivetongue

    Great little survey for mens health. I wish more men were out there writing about sexuality and sexual health. I actually have had a few men I know in real life read my blog and ask me about doing some writing. “Are there any men out there who have sex blogs?” Not enough, in my opinion!

    November 20, 2012 at 10:51 pm

    • The health aspect is terribly important, I agree. It does seem we men “tend” to focus on the sex acts without delving into the sexuality or health aspects. However, both Jack at Frisky in the 916 and Michael at Spiritual Kink are known to wax eloquently on health issues. I highly recommend them.

      Stay SINful
      Mr. AP

      November 21, 2012 at 4:28 am

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